Just saw a presentation from the Pat Cronin Foundation. A powerful story. An emotive story.
How important it is to reinforce to young men that violence is never entertainment, it is never ok. That we all can feel angry but what matters most is what we do. And not just how we respond to our own anger but what we do when we see violence or anger. How many people challenge their friends on behaviours that could potentially change a life – and not for the better.
Women can be violent. Even so, statistically it is men who engage in violent behaviour more than women. I worry about the pack mentality so often seen in young men 15-25. It is intimidating. I feel like I can defend myself but there is something inherently scary about a group of young men who are threatening or mocking – for mocking can lead to action and action can cause such harm.
I like that the language has changed from ‘king-hit’ to coward-punch. Coward-punch is much more apt for thumping someone who is not watching. Not that it is ever ok to punch someone, even if they are watching.
Why is violence so prevalent? What does it take to change this in society? Maybe it needs to start with our language and what we think is funny or entertaining. Watching someone get hurt should not be entertaining – if we keep seeing it this way eventually we will be desensitized to violence and that simply will not end well.
Be more sensitive.
The Female Theologian 